Living With a Speech Problem
Saying, "I have a speech problem" is the first step toward learning to live with it. Instead of trying to hide a lisp or stutter, be open about the way you talk. Explain the situation to friends and teachers, and give them a chance to support you. Continue to use and practice your speech skills, but don't try to talk perfectly all the time (no one else does!). And remember that a speech problem is only one part of who you are as a person. Think of all the wonderful things you know how to do!

Living with a speech problem, though, may also mean learning how to deal with teasing. Sometimes kids tease because they don't understand what a speech problem is. Other kids are bullies who make fun of someone who is different, no matter what the difference is. You can try ignoring kids who tease and simply walk away. Or you can decide beforehand what you could say, like "So what?" But if the teasing doesn't stop, you don't have to put up with it. Instead, ask a parent or teacher for help.

If you have a friend who has a speech problem, you can help him feel more at ease by looking him in the eye when he is talking to you. Always wait for your friend to finish talking and don't say things like "slow down" or "relax." And don't try to finish your friend's sentences. In other words, just be a good listener and a good pal!

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